Good day everyone,
It is a pleasure to be able to share with you again today. Your world is still making many changes and not all of them bad, many things are good. However your press does not want you to know about all the good that is taking place. So my message to you is to continue to send love to anything you feel lead to send it to. All of the lightworkers out there are making the changes. Because when there is a lot of Light, the darkness has to be exposed for what it is, and we are telling you that many things that you are not aware of are being exposed. So have faith, let go of fear and most of all have Hope. We know that this has been a long arduous process, well thousands of years are pretty long, but you are almost there. Think of yourselves as almost reaching the top of a large mountain. You are almost at its peak. Once there, you will see everything for what it is, and then you will finally be able to enter the prosperous valley that you all deserve.
Since all of you signed up to be hear at this most auspicious time on earth, it seems to be ingrained in many of you to help others while sacrificing yourself. That is not what you came here to do. You are the most important being in your life. You cannot have a good relationship with others if you don’t have a good relationship with yourself. That is what many of you have yet to learn or some of you have gotten it but then there comes the situations that you think you are responsible for correcting. We tell you that you are responsible for you and you only. You cannot fix others. That is a responsibility that they must take on their own.
Now don’t take us wrong, you are here to help others, but you are not to give and give and give, when that person that you so want to help, is not helping themselves. The hardest thing for many of you to realize is that everyone comes here with a goal. Many will reach their goals, and many will not and they will have to come back and do it all over again. However, maybe that goal is to be in a situation that makes a difference in society. Maybe they are going to be the example or the catalyst for change. That is their path and it is up to you not to try and change it.
You as lightworkers know what we are saying. You have the family member, the friend, the colleague, or the neighbor who you so desperately want to help, and it doesn’t matter how hard you try, you cannot get them to change. We tell you that maybe they aren’t supposed to change, or maybe they don’t want to change, but that is on them, not on you. You have to learn to live and let go. Let go of what you cannot control. Let go of the situation that so exasperates you because you feel you if they would just listen, that things would be better. As long as you know in your heart of hearts that you have done the best that you can, then it is time to distance yourself and let things play out the way they are supposed to.
My muse here is one of the worst ones about this and it has taken her 46 years, she just turned 47, to get it. If you are enabling people you are not helping them. You are only draining yourselves, just hoping that it will make the difference. We tell you that maybe it will take them to hit rock bottom for them to wake up. But giving so much that you have nothing left over for yourself or your children is not the way to do it. (For those of you who have children who are not on their own). There are people that will drain your energy, people that will expect and expect of you to the point that you are becoming miserable. That my dear ones, is when you say no. One of the ways the universe works is the exchange of energy. You give your focus on someone else; you get the focus back on you. That is a healthy relationship. But when it becomes one is always the giver and one is always the taker, the relationship is not in balance and ultimately one or both parties are not going to be happy.
For people that like to help other people, one of the hardest things for them to say is, NO. It is ok to say no. You do not have to give a reason for saying no. If you know that deep down in your heart of hearts that this is something that you truly do not want to do, and that will drain your energy, we tell you to say NO. Now this will be hard for many of you because you were conditioned to sacrifice yourselves. We tell you that those beliefs need to go away. Do you honestly think in God’s eyes that you are less than another person? No you are all equal. So why do you not value yourselves enough to say no so that you yourself are becoming unwell, mentally drained, or fatigued. You should not. This is what we most want to tell you today. You need to honor yourselves and your immediate family first. All else comes second. If you are too drained to be there for yourself or your immediate family, then you say, NO.
We hope this will be of help to many of you that are struggling with this problem. Throw away the guilt. Do not allow others to make you feel guilty or that you are not doing the right thing. Because we tell you that you are doing the right thing. Assert yourselves and say No. We know that this will take practice and many people will not understand that you have changed. That is ok. If they chose to remove themselves from your life, then they were not meant to be there in the first place. But the ones that chose to honor and respect you, those are the ones that you keep.
We hope that we have been in service to you all this day. We are constantly here for you; all you have to do is ask. Until next time we wish you peace, happiness, love and the ability to say NO!!
My story with Metatron came upon very suddenly. One night i was meditating and out of the blue, I hear a very loud and deep voice in my head say, “I AM METATRON”. We then began communicating on a regular basis. He asked me if I would be willing to channel for him and distribute his messages. He also asked if I would be willing to work with him, to give energy attunements to people, and said more would be asked later when I was ready. Of course I said yes, and here is my page. Please feel free to message me with any questions you may have and feel free to share any experiences that you think others could relate to, whether it is different practitioners, different ideas, questions or anything else that you are guided to share with the group.
Wonderful Blessings of Love and Light,
Dana Wagnon